Reasons Why Women Prefer Dating Older Men

Don’t waste anyone’s time, if you don’t want an exclusive relationship, then be honest so the other person can have a chance to back out. And if they do want to back out, let them, don’t keep chasing them down as though you really want only them. Baggage is a problem when you get older. I’d like to get into a new relationship but recent health issues have slowed that. But when I do I’m worried that I’ll be tempted to go too fast because its lonely having no one in your life. And if she tries to then I’ll probably worry she might change like my ex wife did.

Now I could not imagine a life without her. The spiritual journey was wonderful and fulfiling. I feel sorry for people who only talk of movie and walks and dinners out etc.. They missed the brass ring and don’t even know it. As a matter of fact a lot of them think they got it. One thing we have been struck with has been the important role that dinner plays in the social (or not-so-social) lives of most older adults.

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I can only hope to find a nice partner the old fashioned way, but so far it hasn’t been easy. I am 50, recently single after an empty nest. I’m athletic, tall, have a successful career in medicine, play music publicly, make art, and and am told I’m handsome. I always liked women my own age, but now, the late 30-something and early 40 something women are all over me, no matter how much you tell them they’re too young. They treat me like they have found the holy grail, tell me as much, call me McSteamy, and are throwing all kinds of sexual energy my way. For most guys who like to feel like the sh#t , it is tempting, you get swept into it, and makes it hard to look at women my own age or older.

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I am in excellent shape physically – gym, swimming, mtb, hockey, etc. at 58. I just find women close to my age too granma-like – the way they dress, the way they think, their interests, etc. – I still enjoy hikes in high mountains, downhill skiing, ocean swimming, working out. My ex did some of it with me for the first 10 years of marriage, but it was clearly a chore for her, not enjoyment.

I had not had sex for two years when I started dating again. It took several weeks for me to be able to get and sustain an erection. I am coming off of a failed relationship after trying years to save it.


Blaming your lack of happiness on women not being like they used to be? Your very aura of defeatism is so repelling that no woman, from today or from yesteryear, would ever be able to penetrate it even if she actually wanted to try. You are expecting some woman to fix you and that is not her job.

Sure men and women are different, but it’s not impossible to make a relationship work. What’s ironic is womwn in their late thirties with kids like me. I have to admit that I am guilty of scrutinizing against short men online. I am 5’4″ as well, but like to wear tall sexy heels. Being with a tall man allows me to walk tall and straight in my heels while at the same time making me feel more petite without slouching.

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It is also more complicated then other generations can imagine. Right decisions with the right mate is a gift beyond words. Wrong decisions with the wrong mate can be crippling for life.

I must have had dates/conversations with a hundred women, 95% of them have astonished me with their lack of manners, courtesy, self-awareness. I’ve had not one but many occasions where a phone call is agreed for a specific time and…nothing. They don’t even have the courtesy to let you know they can’t make it. It always turns out to be some trivial reason like dinner took longer than they expected. This isn’t one or two, IT’S THE MAJORITY with this bad behaviour in some form or other. I had one woman who rescheduled a first date three times.

I never ever leave comments but I couldn’t leave this one – someone sent me this as a haha be I’m 40 dating a 58 yo – and holy s it’s the hottest most fulfilling loving beautiful relationship I could dream of. Your article makes me sad for you – you sound so bitter and unhappy in your own right- perhaps this is why you are having trouble finding love? The way you speak of younger women is just so discouraging, as a fellow woman- you are simply adding to the notion of women tearing down women. Find your joy and you will attract someone equally joyous.

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